pace
/peɪs/ verb
to move or develop at a particular, steady rate.
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PURPOSE · ACCOUNTABILITY · CONSISTENCY · EDUCATION
By improving these 4 areas of your life and letting them drive your actions, targets and priorities you will grow, and continue growing in a real and sustainable way.
This is the principle of my methodology. And it will work for you if:
You have big goals
you are sick of generic and stupid advice online and on social media
You feel like there's not enough time in the day
You are ready to work hard
you want real, sustainable success and know this doesn't happen overnight
Ready? I am Abhi, an experienced life coach, ready to work with you to find success all areas of your life. This won't be easy but the results will change your life. Let's go!
Constantly trying to be the best version of yourself is f***ing tiring!
Are you trying to rush ahead, working harder and longer to be successful at work, with studies, with personal relationships and fitness goals? It feels impossible, huh?
That's because it is. Instead you have to find a P.A.C.E. that works for you. To do this you need to work on your...
If you don't have a reason to live, then you will be depressed- fact. I don’t mean some lifelong dream to be an astronaut or brain surgeon, just something that matters to you, that gives you a purpose... at this point in your life.
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Success doesn't happen by accident- you have to put the work in. Only you are able to make this happen, so let's learn how to hold ourselves accountable! No excuses, no delay- just you pushing yourself every single day.
I am sure you have heard the advice too many times already, but it is true! To make real changes in your life you have to work at them consistently. Together we can find out how you can be consistent 100% of the time.
Education changes lives. Whether you are in school or not, there is no excuse for you not to learn more about yourself and the world every single day. It can only make you a better person!
Now, no matter how well my day is going, I stick to my P.A.C.E. Every day. Good days and bad, and in all aspects of my life.
By applying these values to work, relationships and self-growth, I see the results, in an achievable, sustainable way.
Purpose
Education
Consistency
Accountability
How P.A.C.E. has changed my life
At 26, I left everything - my job, home, friends, and family - to pursue my 'purpose'.
Despite teaching since age 11, it took me 15 years to take the leap of faith to follow my dream. After graduating from the 11th best MBA programme in the world, I had followed the expected path of money and status. But this left me completely unfulfilled. My heart was in education, so I took a bold step and moved to Italy where I founded LEAD Educational Institute in Siena. In the years to follow it would become the best reviewed school in the region and the subject of a book by a respected author.
But it's never as easy as just saying you want something different for your life- actually creating it and being successful takes much more- and starting this school was no different. For example, in the first 18 months I only treated myself to dinner in a restaurant once.
To make my dream a reality, I had to fight for it. Everyday I learned how to hold myself accountable, for every success and every setback.
It was easy to blame external factors when things went wrong. The best lesson I learnt during this period was that the world isn't against me- only I was. When everything seemed hopeless the only thing that mattered was how I responded to each challenge. Time and time again. Only I am in control of my success.
Over the past few years I have steadily managed to find my P.A.C.E. where my purpose drives me and my successes are a result of hard work and consistency. Each day presents an opportunity to learn and evolve, with challenges becoming stepping stones to growth.
This is my version of a successful life. I might not drive a Tesla or own a second home, but I am happy and in control of my future. Success is not a race! Find your own P.A.C.E.
How can you make it in a world full of privileged people?
Find your P.A.C.E.
Time and again, I've met people like you – feeling stuck, unsure of their direction, or struggling with goals. Feeling jealous of the people who seem to have success handed to them and the nepos who barely have to try.
You convince yourself to push harder, expending precious energy day after day, yet you end up feeling exhausted and so distant from what truly matters.
The secret is to find the right P.A.C.E. To find a way to thrive in a world full of nepos and rich kids and to live a fulfilled life. By this I mean:
Success is important to you- but not the only thing that matters
The goals you set yourself are challenging but not draining
You have time and energy to maintain important relationships and create new ones
You believe in maintaining a healthy work-life balance to avoid burnout
You value continuous learning and are committed to self-development
You are motivated to create a life that brings you joy and a sense of purpose
You are ready to take action and make meaningful changes to achieve your goals
